The difference between surviving and thriving is hidden in abiding in Jesus. We are going to share some abide in Me daily practices that aren’t just habits, it’s the root of your identity and to true transformation.
Ready to unlock the power that changes everything? Let’s do it.
Friends, Happy July! š I know June was a heavy month, not just in the topics weāve been exploring here on the blog, but in life itself.
The world feels heavy. Work is heavy. Circumstances are heavy.
Yet we have been loving the conversations we have been having. So, letās keep it going, this is still just the beginning.
Weāre diving deep into one of the most vital and transformative spiritual truths: ABIDE in Christ, which is our mission here at life in God.
We began this conversation in last monthās blog, āThe Courage to Abide in God When Life Feels Heavy.ā Now, weāre going deeper with Jesusā own words.
Why Abiding Matters Right Now
At Life in God, our mission is to help you surrender, dwell, and abide in Godās presence. And one of the clearest places Jesus teaches us how to live that out and what it truly means is in John 15. It’s also where we get the abide in Me daily practices initative.
āAbide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.ā (John 15:4)
Before you read any further, pause and read John 15 slowly, prayerfully. I encourage you to grab your Bible (or Bible app). Read it once. Then again.
You can never read the Word of God too many times. Each time you return to a passage, the Lord may reveal something new or remind you of something familiar. Whether itās a warning, guidance, or encouragement, or whatever Heās speaking to you. I urge you to take heed. Godās Word is livingāit meets you right where you are and speaks exactly what you need.
Today, I want to focus on the first portion of this verse āabide in me and I in you.ā Really, it all flows and goes together, but for this purpose I will break it up. Next week we will connect it with fruit bearing, because you cannot bear fruit by yourself.
Breaking Down the Word āAbideā
What is Jesus saying when He says, āabide in meā? What comes to mind when you hear the word āabideā?
Biblically, to abide means to remain, to dwell, to stay faithfully connected in relationship with God. Itās not passive, itās intentional and daily.
Abiding is not a one-time decisionāitās a daily practice. Through Abide in Me daily practices, we stay spiritually rooted and practically connected to Him in everyday life, while He actively lives in us through His Spirit

What Does Abiding Look Like in Real Life?
Itās more than words or public declarations. Abiding shows up in how you live, love, speak, respond, and work.
Jesus is saying [say your name] remain in Me, remain when you donāt understand, live in Me, lay your roots in me and not in this world, stay faithful to the course, stay faithful to your vow to Me, stay faithful to your commitment.
In your remaining in Jesus do you find full joy and are strengthened.
This is what James Montgomery Boice had to say, “When our Lord says: Abide in me He is talking about the will, the choices, the decisions we make. We must decide to do things which expose ourselves to Him and keep ourselves in contact with Him. This is what it means to abide in him.”
This includes the books we read, the shows we watch, the conversations we have, the music we listen to, and the way business we do.
The charge and urging is to remain in Jesus so that you will become a reflection of Him in your life. Where everything you do reflects His nature and character in your life. Where your life becomes a manifestation and representation of the glory of God.
Your conduct, your conversation, your character, your parenting, your responses must bring glory and honor to Him.
How you speak and what you speak should honor Him and glorify Him.
If you want to go deeper, Iāve linked a sermon by Apostle Joshua Selman at the bottom of this post. It unpacks what it means to reflect God’s glory in your life.
This is a Two-Way Relationship
Jesus doesnāt just ask you to remain in HimāHe promises to remain in you.
Itās not all on your shoulders. His Spirit actively dwells in you, guiding you, correcting you, and forming your life through Him.
Your walk with God is sustained not just by your effort, but by His presence.
We stay close to Him spiritually and practically (in our everyday life), but He also actively lives in us through His Spirit.
John Trapp reminds us, āAll our sap and safety is from Christ. The bud of a good desire, the blossom of a good resolution, and the fruit of a good action, all come from him.”
Hereās the thing: you actually canāt do good, or love well, and represent Him apart from Him.
Letās Be Real: What Abiding is Not
This isnāt about pretending to be overly spiritual. You donāt need to respond to āHow are you?ā with āBlessed and highly favoredā every time. But the way you treat people, the way you show up, and the peace you carry will say more about Jesus than any religious phrase ever could.
There has to be something different and distinct about you . Itās not to be seen and extra but because there really is. Youāre not called to blend into the crowd youāre call to stand out, apart from the world ( John 17:16), make His name known, to testify about Jesus (John 4:29), to show love (John 17:16), to pour out what Heās been pouring into you, to have impact, win souls.
These traits are not of a person who blends in.

How to Begin Abiding: 5 Abide in Me Daily Practices
These āabide in Me daily practicesā are small steps that build a life of big spiritual fruit.
- Live in the Fear of God ā Cultivate deep respect, reverence, awe for Him.
- Let His Word Dwell in You – Let Godās Word take root in your Heart. Read, reflect, and live out Scripture daily.
- Obey What He Reveals – Follow His commands, nudges, and convictions.
- Seek His Wisdom Through Prayer- Pray scripture, seek wise counsel, and surrender to the Holy Spirit.
- Think Before You Speak – Give thought to your words and let your words reflect His heart.
A Final Reflection: How Are You Staying Anchored?
We have more resources than ever to stay connected to GodāBible apps, podcasts, worship music, videos shorts, devotionals, and community. Use them. Create rhythms. Let your soul stay anchored through consistent abide in Me daily practices. Thank God this connection isnāt just our effort. Weāre not doing it aloneāJesus is also doing His part by helping us stay connected.
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Thank You
We hope you loved exploring this topic with us. We pray it blessed you to surrender, dwell, and abide in God’s Presence. Now, it’s your turn; which question stood out most to you? Which one will you ask someone today? Drop a comment below, and let’s keep the conversation going! We can’t wait to hear your thoughts!
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